Adults only, verified by a live selfie
18 and over, checked at sign-up. A 20-second live selfie with an age estimate earns the Verified badge. Every report is read by a person, and under-18 reports go to the top of the queue.
The courtship app
Play first. Warm up together. Never get ghosted.
unsneak turns every match into a little courtship. A 60-second game breaks the ice, you warm up only as fast as you both say yes, and it ends with a real date pitched for the two of you. Or an honest goodbye. Never silence.
This Halloween
No ghosts allowed.
The scariest thing on your phone isn't a ghost story. It's a chat that just stops. On unsneak, every courtship ends in a real date or a kind goodbye, and if someone goes quiet, we say goodbye for them. Gently.
Leave the Limbo
Dating apps gave us the Limbo.
Forty open chats. Nobody ends anything. You wonder for weeks if anyone's still there. We think that's lonely, and fixable. So we built the opposite.
The Limbo
Judge a face alone, then stare at an empty chat box.
One pace for everyone, set by which app you happened to download.
Chats that drift on for weeks, then just stop.
Pay to be seen. Pay to see who liked you.
A Courtship
Play first. A 60-second Round together, before anyone types "hey".
You set the pace. The Dial only turns when you both say yes.
A guaranteed ending. A real date, or a kind goodbye. Never silence.
Never pay to be seen. Seeing who invited you is free. Always.
How it works
A courtship, in five small steps.
Every match on unsneak has a beginning, a middle and an ending. You always know where you stand.
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Step 1
Match with an Invitation
No bare likes. Every Invitation carries a first line in their own words.
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Step 2
Play a Round
A 60-second game for two. Answers stay sealed until you've both played.
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Step 3
Warm up at your pace
Turn the Dial from Charm to Spark and beyond, only when you both say yes.
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Step 4
A real date, pitched for you
We suggest a specific, public place that fits you both. One tap to ask.
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Or
An honest goodbye
Not feeling it? Say so kindly, in a tap. Go quiet for 72 hours and we'll say it for you, gently.
The Dial
You set the pace. Together.
Every courtship starts sweet. It only gets bolder when you both privately say "I'd like to turn it up". If only one of you does, nobody ever knows.
Turning it up takes two blind yeses.
Stepping back takes one tap, and nobody is told why.
No pestering: one request per stage every two days, at most.
Charm
Curiosity and compliments. Light Rounds, small luxuries, first impressions.
Spark
Teasing and laughing. Would-you-rather duels, hum-a-song, rate my chat-up line.
Adventure
Small, wholesome dares. Side quests around the city and bolder date ideas.
Close
Slower, softer, more romantic. Only after you've both been verified and have talked or met.
Your first Round
Your first Round is with a real person in your city.
This is how every unsneak match begins: no blank chat box, just a quick 60-second game for two. Create your account and you can play tonight.
Five quick choices
Go with your gut. There are no wrong answers, only revealing ones.
The reveal
Answers stay sealed until you've both played. Then see your picks side by side. Matching answers make a "same brain" spark.
A date, pitched
Your answers become a real date idea in your city, at a public place you can both get to.
You & someone near you
A Round · 60 seconds
- 60 seconds, five choices
Quick, playful would-you-rathers. Long enough to learn something, short enough to say yes to.
- Sealed until you've both played
Nobody sees your answers first, and nobody can copy theirs. Then the reveal.
- A real person, nearby
Real adults in your city, many with a Verified human badge. No bots, no AI partners, no paying to be seen.
Free to join. Web, Android and iOS.
Safety is the product
Romance feels better when you feel safe.
Safety isn't a settings page on unsneak. It's built into every step, and it's never behind a paywall.
Women-first
Designed around women's comfort, so rooms stay balanced and kind. In a courtship, she's never nudged on his behalf.
You set the pace
The Dial moves only on a mutual yes. Step back any time, silently, with no effect on your record.
Scam shield
We watch for the patterns scammers use, like rushing you off the app or talking money, and warn you gently.
Lookout, for every date
Share My Date sends a friend the who, where and when. Set a check-in, or ask for a "call me with an excuse".
The Honest Report
Every quarter we'll publish how many courtships got an ending, how fast we handled reports and what we removed.
We review every report, and urgent safety reports first. First dates are always pitched at public places with opening hours.
Read our community promiseIn writing
Promises we'll hold ourselves to.
Easy to say. So we're writing them down, and we'll show our working every quarter.
Never pay to be seen.
Safety, closure, the Dial, stepping back and seeing who invited you are always free. We'll never sell boosts, queue-jumps or your data.
The full pledgeYour words stay yours.
AI never sends anything as you, and there are no AI partners here. It helps with date ideas and safety checks, and anything it writes is labelled.
Read the charterReal numbers, every quarter.
Closure rate, response times, accounts removed. The first report comes after our first full quarter, once there's real data to share.
What we'll publishWhere
Live in your city.
Wherever you are, unsneak is local. Your city gets its own Tonight question, its own Rounds and date ideas for places you can actually get to.
Open now
Your city, every night
A Tonight question at 9pm local time, 60-second Rounds with real people near you, and every courtship ending in a real date or a kind goodbye. On the web, Android and iOS.
Create my accountIn the UK or Northern Ireland? We're not open there yet. Leave your email and we'll tell you when we are.
unsneak Hosts
Run a supper club, a quiz or a run club?
List your singles-friendly nights on unsneak. Verified guests, balanced numbers, and a courtship can start at your venue.
Fair questions
Good to know
What's a "courtship app"?
Every match on unsneak becomes a short courtship with a beginning, a middle and an ending. You play a quick Round first, warm up only as fast as you both say yes, and it always ends in a real date or a kind goodbye. Never the Limbo.
What happens if someone just goes quiet?
If someone goes silent for 72 hours, unsneak closes the courtship for them with a gentle, neutral goodbye. You'll never be left wondering. The person who went quiet sees a note on their own Honest Record, without any shaming.
Can the Dial be used to pressure someone?
No. A one-sided "turn it up" is never shown to the other person, requests are limited, stepping back is silent and instant, and there's a dedicated report reason for being pressured about the Dial.
Why women-first?
Balanced, safe rooms make better dates for everyone, so the app is designed around women's comfort first. In a man-and-woman courtship, only she gets the app's "turn it up?" prompt.
Is it free?
Yes, the core is free: two courtships at a time, Rounds, Tonight, safety tools, goodbyes and seeing who invited you. Premium adds more courtships and richer rituals. It never buys visibility or a better record.
Is unsneak open now?
Yes. unsneak is open now in cities worldwide, on the web, Android and iOS. Every city gets its own Tonight question at 9pm local time, and your Rounds are with real people near you. Create your account to start.
Is unsneak available in the UK or Northern Ireland?
Not yet. We'll only open there when we can do it properly. Leave your email and we'll tell you when we do.
Be courted again.
unsneak is open now in your city. Create your account, answer tonight's question, and play your first Round with someone real.